Dont Take On Others Garbage

The next blog or two is aimed at helping us to experience freedom. It was about a year ago, I realized that I have never truly known what it was like to live a life of complete freedom. I was always constrained by many things. Whether it was restrictions I put on myself on how to live, restrictions that religion (not relationship with God, there is a difference) put on me, or restrictions that I was feeling because I was trying to please others. I was starting to feel suffocated and I knew I needed to change. So I started some hard, deep, and ROUGH soul searching. I had to start looking at myself with a mirror and fix those dark places. With each adjustment or mind shift, I was feeling a little more free. So I wanted to share some of the things I found to help me so I could live my life in true freedom so I could expand and elevate into my God given destiny. I had weights holding me down and I wasn't in a place where I could elevate to the next level and I was missing on so much from life. So today, I wanted to start with what brought me the greatest freedom. I freed myself from others feelings, opinions, and even their actions toward me. So how do you get to that point?

You have to realize within yourself, that other people's issues are THEIR issues. I know you are thinking, yeah yeah, I knew that already. But I want you to look at that deeper than you are. Have you ever been stressed because someone didn't respond to your good news with the enthusiasm you were expecting? Or have you just felt like someone was acting funny toward you? Or did someone give you some advice because they were trying to be "helpful" but it was really negative? You must realize that other people's opinion of what you have going on comes from a place of their own junk. It's based off of THEIR experiences, THEIR insecurities, THEIR fears, THEIR past mishaps, it's THEIR issues. Sometimes we take others advice as truth but you have to realize that it is a suggestion. It may be wise and a good suggestion, in which case you should heed to that advice. Or it could be far fetched, and you should discard it. If you are thinking about heeding to anyone's advice you have to make sure that it lines up with your overall purpose and it will help you elevate.

Life is TOUGH! Adding on the pressure of trying to please other people will make it impossible to excel, elevate, and experience freedom. We are in a season of transition. It is a time where we can transition to a higher place and really start manifesting those dreams and goals we have been working toward or contemplating. However, you will not be able to move if you are still bound by other people's junk. Let their issues be theirs. Walk in the freedom that you deserve. When you start experiencing that true freedom you will realize that you now have the capability to start doing anything you put your mind too. Let's be free together! Join me as we experience elevation, freedom, and manifestation!