The next blog or two is aimed at helping us to experience freedom. It was about a year ago, I realized that I have never truly known what it was like to live a life of complete freedom. I was always constrained by many things. Whether it was restrictions I put on myself on how to live, restrictions that religion (not relationship with God, there is a difference) put on me, or restrictions that I was feeling because I was trying to please others. I was starting to feel suffocated and I knew I needed to change. So I started some hard, deep, and ROUGH soul searching. I had to start looking at myself with a mirror and fix those dark places. With each adjustment or mind shift, I was feeling a little more free. So I wanted to share some of the things I found to help me so I could live my life in true freedom so I could expand and elevate into my God given destiny. I had weights holding me down and I wasn't in a place where I could elevate to the next level and I was missing on so much from life. So today, I wanted to start with what brought me the greatest freedom. I freed myself from others feelings, opinions, and even their actions toward me. So how do you get to that point?
You have to realize within yourself, that other people's issues are THEIR issues. I know you are thinking, yeah yeah, I knew that already. But I want you to look at that deeper than you are. Have you ever been stressed because someone didn't respond to your good news with the enthusiasm you were expecting? Or have you just felt like someone was acting funny toward you? Or did someone give you some advice because they were trying to be "helpful" but it was really negative? You must realize that other people's opinion of what you have going on comes from a place of their own junk. It's based off of THEIR experiences, THEIR insecurities, THEIR fears, THEIR past mishaps, it's THEIR issues. Sometimes we take others advice as truth but you have to realize that it is a suggestion. It may be wise and a good suggestion, in which case you should heed to that advice. Or it could be far fetched, and you should discard it. If you are thinking about heeding to anyone's advice you have to make sure that it lines up with your overall purpose and it will help you elevate.
Life is TOUGH! Adding on the pressure of trying to please other people will make it impossible to excel, elevate, and experience freedom. We are in a season of transition. It is a time where we can transition to a higher place and really start manifesting those dreams and goals we have been working toward or contemplating. However, you will not be able to move if you are still bound by other people's junk. Let their issues be theirs. Walk in the freedom that you deserve. When you start experiencing that true freedom you will realize that you now have the capability to start doing anything you put your mind too. Let's be free together! Join me as we experience elevation, freedom, and manifestation!
How many opportunities have you passed on because you didn't think you were good enough? How many times have you told yourself: "you aren't smart, you aren't good enough, you aren't pretty, you should just stop." I know that for me, the negative rhetoric that rings in my head has won numerous times in my life. I have missed out on so many opportunities because I thought those things. Yet the opinions of others are always opposite. Why do we struggle to believe the positive that people say about us? I remember one day I just had reached a breaking point and I prayed a simple prayer. I said "Lord, help me to believe what others say about me." This wasn't the negative things that others were saying about me, but this was the great things that others were saying about me. I was blessed to be surrounded by people who spoke encouraging words over me. People constantly were telling me that I was smart, that I was going to be an amazing doctor, that I was talented, that I could conquer anything. I would always smile and say thanks. But if I am being honest, I never believed them. It took some serious introspection to realize that I could no longer allow past failures and mishaps to write my future story. Negative rhetoric no longer has a place in my life. I had to begin to rewrite what I was thinking about myself. That is NOT easy. I still have moments were I believe this isn't going to work or 'you can't do this'. But at those moments, I immediately tell myself NO and I tell myself I CAN DO IT! I have to encourage myself. After awhile, you will naturally respond with positivity. This positive mindset will begin to manifest a reality in your life that is filled with happiness, contentment, peace, and abundance. Therefore, lets stop blocking ourselves from all that life has to offer. Join me in writing your new reality. Let's manifest greatness together. Remember, you can do that thing that looks too big for you. You can start that business. You can finish school. Your project will be successful. You will have opportunities that no one can stop. As we enter into a new year and new decade we aren't going to be our biggest roadblock any longer, but our biggest cheerleader! We are manifesting greatness from this day forward!
Dr. Dorian's goal is to affect others lives through love. through love, she hopes to motivate and empower people to become the best version of themselves.
The information in these blogs are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition. Please consult with your physician for medical advice pertinent to your situation!